Relationships come and go, but profits? Those stay. For five years, Tolu thought she had found her person. He introduced her to crypto, convinced her to learn the ropes, and made her believe they were building a future together, until she opened Instagram one day and saw his wedding pictures.
Shattered, betrayed, and heartbroken, she had only one thing left: crypto. What started as casual curiosity in Bitcoin became her get-over-him plan, and today, she’s made enough money to forget his existence completely.
In this exclusive interview, Tolu spills how heartbreak turned her into a crypto queen, why she thanks her cheating ex for the best lesson of her life, and why she wouldn’t even take him back if he begged! 😏
Hey Tolu, thank you for speaking with us today! Tell us, what was your crypto origin story?
Tolu: Ah, more like my villain origin story actually. (laughs) I wish I had a cool story, but honestly? I was in love and foolish.
Wait, what?
Tolu: Yeah! My ex introduced me to crypto when we were dating. I didn’t even take it seriously at first, he’d be on his laptop trading, and I’d just be there watching and asking questions as per we were ‘building our future together and securing a trust fund for our kids’ lol.
Oh no, I see where this is going… What happened?
Tolu: He happened! We dated for five years, I stood by him through everything, job loss, business struggles, all of it. Then one day, I opened Instagram, and I saw my man in wedding photos with another woman!
Hold up. You found out he got married on Instagram???
Tolu: YES! Instagram o! No breakup, no warning. Just a happy ‘congratulations’ post from his friends. Mans just disappeared!
Wow. That’s evil. So… how did you cope?
Tolu: First, I cried ehn. Then, I stalked his wife’s page for like a month. I needed to know what she had that I didn’t. For over six months, I was sick, depressed and zoned out from everything. Then one day, I remembered the one thing he actually left me with: crypto.
Oh wow, let’s say that’s the only good thing he ever gave you?
Tolu: Exactly! I had learned how to trade just by being around him, so I told myself, instead of crying over my ‘loss,’ I put my focus into making money. I started taking it seriously, studied the market, and before I knew it, I had flipped my heartbreak into profit!
Wait… so you’re telling me that your ex basically set you up for success without realising it?
Tolu: Oh yes. His betrayal was the best financial advice I ever got. At this point, if I ever see him again, I’ll just smile. He gave me pain, but I turned it into profit.
What kind of trader are you now? Are you more of a day trader, a swing trader, or a long-term holder?
Tolu: Let’s just say I trade with sense and vengeance. 😏 I started out as a swing trader, but now I mix it up, some long-term holdings and some fast moves. I don’t rush in like I rushed into love. Now I do research, I wait, and I enter only when it makes sense.
I love that! So what’s your best trading tip, especially after learning the hard way?
Tolu: Simple! Never invest with emotions. Just like in relationships, if you start making moves based on ‘vibes,’ you’ll lose everything. Always check the market, watch trends, set stop-losses, and secure profits. And most importantly, if something looks too good to be true, it probably is.
LMAO, that sounds like relationship advice too!
Tolu: EXACTLY! Trading and dating are the same o.
I feel you. Are there like any coins that remind you of your ex since he was the one that introduced you to crypto?
Tolu: Hahaha! Yessoh! First of all, I stay away from any coin that has too much hype, no stability. If the coin is all promises and excitement, then one day, boom, the value crashes, it’s a no-go area!! That’s how my ex was. Full of empty words! I also avoid any coin that pumps and dumps too much. If it looks shaky and unreliable, I don’t touch it.
I feel like this man traumatised you!
Tolu: LOL, he did! But guess what? Now I have USDT, BTC, ETH, and most especially peace of mind. Can’t say the same for him. I heard he’s having issues with his wife too.
Whoa! Let’s take this off-camera, please.
Final question, what’s next for you? What’s the future looking like?
Tolu: Honestly? I’m focused on my money. No distractions, no heartbreaks. Just building wealth and living stress-free. The next time I date, he won’t be teaching me about money, I’ll be teaching HIM.
We love that for you! Final words for anyone going through a breakup?
Tolu: Turn that heartbreak into hustle. Whether it’s crypto, a business, or a career move, put all that angry energy into something that will pay you. And whatever you do, never let a man be your financial plan.
Tolu might have lost a man, but she gained financial freedom, a trade she’ll take any day. While her ex is out there thinking he got away with something, she’s busy stacking profits and living her best life.
So the next time someone breaks your heart, don’t cry, open Quidax and start trading! Got any heartbreak or lovey dovey story to share? Fill out this form and we’ll reach out to you.
Disclaimer: This content is for educational purposes only and not financial advice. Please do your own research (DYOR) or speak to a financial advisor before making any investment decisions.
